to annoy or irritate someone · to make someone defensive or angry
Ever said something completely innocent, but it just rubbed someone the wrong way? Or maybe someone's just being plain annoying? 😤 This expression is perfect for those moments when you accidentally (or intentionally 😉) make someone feel irritated, defensive, or even a little angry. It’s like their emotional fur stands on end!
💡 **Fun Fact!** This idiom comes from animals (like cats or dogs) raising their fur or arching their back when they feel threatened or angry. So, when you 'get someone's back up,' you're essentially putting them on the defensive! It's usually about making someone feel annoyed or ready to argue. Use it carefully, or you might just get *their* back up!
When would you use 'to get someone's back up'? A. 🥳 When you want to compliment someone on their new haircut. B. 😠 When someone makes a rude comment that deeply irritates you. C. 🧘♀️ When you are calmly meditating in a quiet room.